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Scorpio Men Are Enigmatic
Dates: Oct 23 – Nov 21
Are your attracted to a Scorpio man? Are you involved with a Scorpio male who sends mixed signals, like being super passionate one minute and seemingly disconnected the next? Do you gravitate towards this sign for inexplicable reasons?
If you have answered yes to these questions, you have come to the right place.
You see, I am a Scorpio man.
In the material that follows, I’m going to share with you several well-kept secrets about Scorpios. Additionally, I will reveal the positive and negative traits of this sign in an unfiltered way.
As you pe deeper into the male Scorpio mind, I’ll provide key insights designed to help you better understand why your man acts the way that he does-which no doubt is frustrating!
Finally, at the end of this page, I’ll discuss the hard science behind the Scorpio personality, which is based on astrophysics and not on Greek or Roman mythology.
Are you ready? Let’s jump right in!
First, let’s start with the basic positive and negative traits.
Scorpio: The Good and Bad
What’s So Great About Scorpio Guys?
1. Passionate and Intense
Scorpio men are passionate and intense. As one myself, however, I can tell you that this is a sword that cuts both ways. Particularly at the beginning of a relationship, you will experience our singular, passionate, laser-like focus. When we become intimate, you will experience lovemaking like you never have before. Our sexual energy is palatable, magnetic, and at times overwhelming.
2. Loyal and Intuitive
Scorpios guys are a loyal bunch. When we are in a relationship with you, we are very intuitive and empathic. Other zodiac signs who are romantically involved with us, however, mistake our cool distance for ambivalence.
I can tell you this is simply not true. We will walk over hot coals for you when we are in love, but it is a struggle for us at times to show emotions because of other things going on inside-you’ll learn more about this when you read about our negative traits.
3. Curious, Logical, & Hyper-Focused
Scorpion men are curious and logical, which can be both a positive and negative thing. On the one hand, we have a unique ability to deconstruct a given issue or dilemma, similar to how Spock from Star Trek may approach a certain problem. Our logical nature is often times sparked by the question, “What?” What is causing you to behave in the manner that you do?
This curiosity and logical nature, as mentioned earlier, can be a double-edged sword-when we are hyper-focused on a given problem, we become obsessed to the point that it becomes annoying. We will provoke arguments and fights in a relationship with you in order to find out what you are truly thinking, which is a primary function of our curious nature. Our only tool to move past a given obsession is to find a new one or engage in mindfulness.
Scorpio men are extremely empathic. Many Scorpio males are able to sense what is going on with you emotionally. In fact, we likely can sense what you are feeling even when we are not in your physical psence. The reason for this is because once we are in love with you, we become hyper-focused on your total person. This ability to be empathic, however, is limited to those whom we are close to. With other people, our logical nature can at times interfere with this ability because we tend to over-rationalize and overthink.
Warning: It is important that you know that when we are in a calm place, we are able to read your emotions with freakish accuracy. It is not necessary that you speak in our psence for us to know what is going on inside. If you search your memories of your interactions with Scorpion men, you will know this to be true.
Scorpio men are competitive in anything they commit to. In other words, once we make the decision to partake in a given activity, we are “in it to win it.” Like the other traits mentioned here, this can be both a blessing and curse. Our competitive nature comes at the cost of our relationships. It is one of the reasons Scorpios are perceived to be so distant. It is hard for us to hold the emotions of deep passion and love for you while we try to balance these feelings with our strong desire to “win” at other aspects of life.
In Your Experience
Scorpio Guys’ Negative Traits
1. Secretive and Mysterious
Want to spot a Scorpio male? Look for a guy wearing sunglasses when it doesn’t make sense to, like on cloudy days or even at night. You can tell you are in the psence of a Scorpion man because when you pass one by, you feel a strong pull that is difficult to describe. Many have characterized Scorpion men as “bad boys” because we give off that dangerous yet paradoxically attractive vibe.
2. Distant and Disconnected
Scorpion men are cursed with being obsessed with a given project or problem-solving activity. This can cause many of us to seem emotionally distant, cool, and disconnected. It is important that you know this when you first meet a Scorpio-the guy may seem a bit removed at first because he is trying to tune into your persona.
It takes us time to do this, but when we “dial in” to your channel, we do so with pinpoint accuracy. Interference, however, often happens because of our obsessive nature, which might cause us to focus on other things.
3. Manipulative and Resentful
This is perhaps one of our greatest weaknesses. Scorpion men do in fact resort to manipulation, particularly when we become jealous or resentful. If we are dating you or romantically involved with you, we expect that you make it all about us. This is perhaps a very selfish thing to admit, but it’s unfortunately true.
Warning: If we detect you are seeing other men, which we can sense with our empathic abilities, you need to be careful. I say this because we will absolutely sting you and sting you badly. We will make your life miserable. Think about your past experiences with Scorpion men-you know it’s true.
4. Jealous and Overly Sensitive
These characteristics go hand-in-hand with the pviously mentioned traits. When we are committed to you, we’ll become protective of you. And, for all of our rational abilities, we have a glitch when it comes to jealousy. In other words, we often find it hard to use the rational side of our brain when we think someone else is interested in you or pursuing you. We are also highly sensitive to criticism, I’ll admit.
Warning: If you criticize us too harshly, it activates a very ugly side of our personality-we’ll want to seek vengeance. This happens through manipulation. We do not like this part of our personality and avoid using it whenever possible. It’s best to avoid triggering that reaction.
5. Obsessive and Self-Important
Scorpio men are often accused of being obsessive and even narcissistic (self-important). On some level, this is true. We do become obsessed with a given problem, project or puzzle and will not stop in our pursuit of the solution until it is achieved. This trait, however, is often confused with being narcissistic.
This is completely false. We have a lot of empathy and sympathy for others and our compassion knows no bounds. It’s just that we tend to obsess over things to the point of being ridiculous. And, while some of us may seek the spotlight, many more of us shy away from it because it illuminates parts of our personality that we wish to remain hidden.
In Your Experience
Other Common Male Scorpio Characteristics
- We generally are good with money and are not the impulsive type when it comes to spending.
- We obsess over our appearance and have body image issues.
- We have memories like elephants and can recall the tiniest of details about events that happened long ago-right down to the inflection of your voice and the exact words you spoke.
- We struggle with trust issues and it takes time for others to win our trust.
- We are prone to back problems because of our obsessions, which manifest in the form of stress in our lumbar region.
- We are caretakers, in part, because we are fiercely independent and loath the thought of someone taking care of us.
- Many of us work in fields like psychology, journalism, healthcare, engineering, and finance. All of these fields involve the use of logic, which is a Scorpio strength.
Why Do Scorpios Have Odd Behaviors?
Scorpio men are perhaps the most misunderstood of the zodiac signs. One minute we can be intently focused on what is going on with you personally and the next moment we can seem distracted and even disconnected.
It All Has to Do With Astrophysics
Scorpios are influenced at birth by the planets Mars and Pluto. I could give you a bunch of hocus pocus about Greek Gods and “ruling planets,” but I’d rather give you the science.
When a person is born between October 23 and November 21, they are born under what is called a “Scorpion Sky”. This simply means that the planets Mars and Pluto are vertically opposite of one another, each having their own gravitation impact on the planet earth, which is primarily influenced by the Sun. Are you with me so far?
If you believe that tides rise and recede as a result of the gravitational pull of the sun, moon, and other planets in our solar system then you need to understand that during Scorpion Sky, Mars and Pluto are positioned opposite one another. This opposite positioning has an influence on all liquids-not just in our oceans. Here, I am talking about the amniotic fluid in the mother’s womb at the time of the male Scorpion’s birth. This astrological positioning can both negatively and positively charge the amniotic fluid in the mother’s placenta, thereby creating a unique Scorpio baby.
Scorpios are considered to have a negative polarity because of this positioning. This negative polarity gives Scorpions the passion of the hot planet, Mars, and the cool distance of the planetoid Pluto.
Instead of looking at mythology, which cannot be proven in science, let’s look at astrophysics, which can. Take note of the planetary characteristics in comparison to the Scorpion male characteristics. I’ve included a sky map as a visual.
Planetary Characteristics of Mars and Pluto
Dating a Scorpio Man Is Like Riding a Rollercoaster
If you are interested in dating a Scorpio male, get ready for a super wild ride. We will make you feel as if you are the center of the universe while also exhibiting behaviors that may seem, frankly, crazy. What you need to know is that when we are in love with you, we are truly in love and will remain loyal. Gaining our trust and love, however, is not easy. Once you are in a relationship with us, we will likely want to take care of you.
The key to a Scorpios heart is patience and understanding. Because of our sensitive nature, we pfer that you phrase any criticism towards us carefully-opt for meaningful, constructive feedback. We respond to feedback in a logical way and will try to integrate your observations into actions. Once we’re in love with you, our only desire is to please you. And while we may at times have a wandering eye, our heart is only connected to you.
If you found this helpful, please share with others-particularly other Scorpio men, who may need a primer on what is fueling some of their unexplained behavior.
mae on September 09, 2022:
dont fall in love with a scorpio they are good liars ,stubborn and always competative very selfish like starfish
ceci on May 01, 2022:
Me imagino quiwn esa Laura y se que se levanto al Escorpio entre las Tetas..
Laura on April 19, 2022:
Its all true what you explain. Im with a scorpio man and he’s the wounderful beautiful inside and out. Thank you for your input much appciated
Maricel on April 06, 2022:
This is to John Hollywood. I found your lightworker article then saw this article. Makes complete sense now how you know so much about a lightworker and why I personally resonated with your style of expssion. The scorpio draw. I encompass lightworker qualities and I am also married to a fierce and loyal scorpion man for the past 13 years. We started dating when he was 19 and married when he was 20. I’m seven years older. We live our lives intensly and passionately both good and bad. I’m an unusual match for Scorpio since I’m an Aquarian with Capricorn shared qualities. I want to mention that a good scorpio man loves beauty, intelligence, independent and above all a pure almost innocent minded person. When your are the one for him, you will have absolutely no doubt about it. I have to say my husband is the lighthouse and I am the light beam. We serve our souls purpose together.
Wong on March 23, 2022:
I am falling in love with a scorpio man and he is very sensitive. He always jealous about my past and unable to make the first step. How to make him forgive me ? For trust issue, how to gain back trust from a scorpio man ?
Fay on January 28, 2022:
Hmmm well all
Tanya on October 26, 2022:
Hi, I have recently escaped a relationship with a Scorpio man. I say escaped because had I not left him, I would not be here. He was a narcissist and a drug addict. He has admitted to his mother and roommate that he was mean to me, totured me emotionally and almost destroyed me. He has yet to admit this to me. He called asking for help after we had broken up to take him to the hospital. I could not take him for my sanity, but I called his roommate to check on him and I called his mother. Fast forward a week later after rehab and he is mad at me for not taking him to the hospital. Anyways, without giving too much details, he didn’t love me at all – he used my good nature and whatever money I had for his addiction. I loved him the best that I could, but in the end I had to leave otherwise I would have completely lost myself.
I will not base ALL scorpio men on him, but I will be less trusting of men of any zodiac sign going forward.
Big B on August 13, 2022:
BRENDA ARLEDGE from Washington Court House on May 28, 2022:
This article is definitely interesting. I can relate to some of it.
Scorpio men are definitely like you have described..especially the hot and cold way of disconnecting.
The way they Sting is awful, but their loving side is awesome.
It is most difficult to understand why they seem distant when claiming to love you.
One problem you did not focus on is their need to not be forthcoming with the complete truth. To skim over and leave out parts or just not tell you something at all. ( maybe in fear of upsetting one and dealing with drama)
The part about the gravity pull seems a bit questionable to me…almost like one of the lies a scorpio will tell himself when trying to convince others he is right.
Of chúng tôi is all about him.
shan on April 25, 2022:
lmfao true I’m a Scorpio female, me and my nigga have the same bday. thought we was on some soul mate shit but hell to the nah boy proved me wrong the next moment. it’s an endless cycle I ain’t tryna break out of. maybe it’s worth it.
Deathstalker Sting on March 08, 2022:
Hi. I am a leo gay and im into a scorpio younger than I am. I met him last year and I think I turned him on bcoz I always crack jokes and he liked it. He complimented me but I never believed it I though he was just riding with my joke. A year after, we joined a competition. We are both athletes.
He kept coming and talked to me and asked me if I remember him. I said yes. He asked me if I want to teach him my sports. He kept coming to my quarters and I noticed he is observing me and he knew the datails of what I did during the day. Maybe he asked his friends who are staying in oir quarter.
He added me on facebook and he changed his name. I noticed he gets offline when I do and he gets online when he expects me tp go online. He likes my posts but he suddenly not lking m post anymore. I sent a love message on messenger but he seemed disintereted at first. then I sent a like sign then he said he is thrilled. He wafast to reply maybe he was waiting for mw to messe him. But I was too long to reply. It went fine he was happy but he went offline three days now from our last conversation.
Anyone who can explain this. Did I offemd him? Does he like me or he is just tripping?
Lunatic8 on December 13, 2022:
Bravo. So accurate. Thank you so much for this article. I’m a Scorpio Moon female with the love of my life, a Scorpio sun male, for almost 18 years. We intrigued each other from the moment our eyes met. I attempted to break it off after we’d dated a few times because I had never been offered that level of attention. However, he let me know right away that I was making a tragic mistake…because he ‘knew how to treat a woman’.
Mai on November 19, 2022:
Hello. I am a Capricorn and I conversating with a Scorpio. So Far I see a wonderful future. We havent meet yet but Im really looking forward to seeing him. Prayering our 1st encounter will be like sparks. So far I am loving it.
Tristan on November 01, 2022:
Definitely keeping this to read again and again couldn’t of said it better and it truly puts ego I am deep down on paper, or words, I myself am a November 9 scorpio and I wouldnt take it back for anything, thank you for taking the time and writing this, truly amazing.
Tina on September 24, 2022:
I’m a Libra dating a Scorpio and this is insanely accurate. Made me feel a little better about the relationship tho like I have a better understanding of him now.
Sasha on September 21, 2022:
This was a very good article. I’m close with 2 scorpio men & this was spot on!
Heidi on July 17, 2022:
I’m a Aries female and I gotta say I have met a Scorpio male and fell for him but he’s the worst because he cheated on his Libra with me and completely ghosted me afterwards…never again
Robin on July 08, 2022:
I am a Cancer Woman , involved with a Scorpio Man and you couldn’t had said any of this ANY better. Pretty much on point. You gave me some good tips to know , but I’d like to know some other things…
S.h on June 17, 2022:
Hi i am a Scorpio like wise my baby daddy we are going thru sum hell rite now cause he take talk from ppl
Ak on May 25, 2022:
I’m a Sagittarius women married to Scorpio. As a free independent sign, I can tell you this relationship is difficult but can work. Most wouldn’t. Scorpio man must allow a sagg freedom & trust, and Sagg must learn to open and honest. It’s worth it though if it works! He’s so dedicated.
Virgo on March 27, 2022:
So basically you can have a wondering eye but if you catch your partner looking at another guy you have a problem?
Nadia mcallister on March 16, 2022:
Desi on March 08, 2022:
Im a cancer and my husband is a scorpio and I am very happy with him. We are so in love. He is attentive and caring when you really need it and has a great attention to details of things. He tells me he loves me several times everyday. We have been married for 6 chúng tôi dated for like 3 months before that. I’ve dated terrible scorpios before but you have to remember there are good and bad people in all signs . I felt the article was alright .
Sweet Sophie on February 13, 2022:
Im dating a scorps and im a aquarius girl, hes older than me like 10 years, im 27. But he is handsome and well shaped, anyways he likes me very much and hes so subtle but i can very much see all the little signs of sensitive, jealousy, possessiveness and all the above as written. However i think i like it, its just the beginning, It is something exciting.
Kimberly on January 15, 2022:
Been dating my scorpio. For 3 months. His kids are out of control his kids mom dont want him with anyone and shes married everyone. Is in between. US. What to do
AJox on January 06, 2022:
My Scorpio just hit me with a “I appciate your concern, (his pet name for me). I’m fine.” When I told him it’s okay to lean back on me…he’s dealing with family issues and he has literally been by my side and so supportive through everything that’s hit me for the past 2 years. Did I overstep? How do I fix this? I just said okay and changed the subject, was that enough? I’m a Pisces and hypersensitive to his tone
Lost in la la land on December 17, 2022:
Wag your tail not was…
Lost in la la land on December 16, 2022:
John Hollywood (author) from Hollywood, CA on December 01, 2022:
Michele on November 30, 2022:
Spot on! I have been seeing a scorpio man for almost 3 years ( I am Aries) All of what you say is spot on with him as well. He is more of “actions speak louder than words” and won’t tell me that he loves me, he knows I love him, but he will NOT say the words to me. He acts so much in love when he is with me but then can turn cold and interested in TV or work or something. I am still around and with him every day… I know if he didn’t want me around, he would tell chúng tôi does he LOVE me yet? My whole life revolves around him and yet we have no commitment. I want commitment…..
Lyss on September 28, 2022:
I’m a Pisces and my boyfriend is a Scorpio. I’ve never been more drawn to another person in my whole life. We’ve only officially been together for 2 months but with him I can really see a future. This article was really helpful to me because he would tell me all these sweet and romantic thing and become very distant. I’m very patient with him because I also am afraid of being burned by love. I feel like he and I have a deep understanding of one another. However sometimes when he becomes distant I do get scared and worried, what should I do about that?
John Hollywood (author) from Hollywood, CA on September 18, 2022:
I’m glad you liked. Taurus can be a good match for Scorpio
Ananya on September 18, 2022:
I have been with a scorpio guy for last 10 months,I have feelimgs for him,even told him about those but he nevers says anything clearly. After reading this article,I felt like he only wrote this,each n every point what u have said matches with him. Thanx for this article. I m a Taurus girl n I get attracted to him like a iron piece to a magnet,for me,its the sexiest zodiac n he is the sexiest one I will ever find. Thanx love:*:-)
Jennifer on September 16, 2022:
Sammy on September 05, 2022:
Scorpio men are the worst I have to wonder if they have conscience was with one tried to work with show him love and affection help him out financially and he turns around disgrace me for kind deeds showing. I don’t like Scorpio men
John Hollywood (author) from Hollywood, CA on August 23, 2022:
That’s a good question. I’d say yes (mostly).
Genevieve on August 22, 2022:
Hey John. Thank you for the informative article. Quick question, would these traits apply to an inpidual that has their Venus in Scorpio if their sun sign is not?
Angela on August 21, 2022:
Aquarius girl here dating a Scorpio man. MAN OOHHH MAN. This guy has swept me off my feet in such a small period of time. We talk on the phone for 5 hours straight, we go to sleep with each other on the phone. (Note that we are grown ups in professional fields)… I just thought the whole speaking on the phone for so long was left back in middle, high school, clearly NOT. Sex is BOMB!! I mean, i like kinky and this guy, i mean is there such thing as “limits” when it comes to having sex with a Scorpio man? NO! And i love it!!! But i must admit he is needy. Needs affection / attention often. Gets SUPERRRR JEALOUS and is VERY PROTECTIVE OF ME… Its sometimes difficult for me since Aqua girls we tend to be more of a free spirit & we like to come and go. But ladies, the Scorpio man will make sure you are okay and not in need of anything. He is always willing, actually, not willing, HE ALWAYS WANTS to step up and be the man. Provide, take care of me, and feel like hes in control… I must admit a lot of times i just agree with him and let him get his way even if i dont fully agree… He is very family oriented and literally started giving me that “wifey treatment” within A WEEK of knowing me… All i can say is im falling for this guy live ive never felt before… We do have our challenges. But i just cant explain how someone can be so much like you, yet so different. Anyhow, he has my heart and us Aqua girls are hard to commit but this guy i can PERFECTLY SEE A FUTURE WITH HIM.♥
selkiesiren on July 10, 2022:
Li’a on June 07, 2022:
I am a Cancerian woman and have only had one opportunity to date a Scorpion man in my entire life. Last week was my dream come true I thought. We had both been praying for a mate and timing
waited 30 minutes, then went home to eat my Vegsn food! I finally reached him at 7:00 pm. Calling every hour leaving a message. Reached him at 7:00 pm and invited him to meet at the Swan Lake park. He said no that he was busy. I said ok and went on my way. I had already decided that he was the one. He called me back at 9 pm. To say ” I should have met you with my stupid self”. We talked till after 12 midnight and thought that we had gotten everything straight! I sincerely believed that there was something wrong with his phone and I stayed at that. He stated that there was something wrong with my phone obviously however we both went to bed happy. The next morning he had told me that he would call me when he reached the doctors office for his annual appointment. He text me and said good morning, WYD? I told him that my weed eater had messed up on me and he asked me to bring it to the garden and give him the address so that he could meet me over there. What a mistake. We met and I was so excited because he was so tall and slim. I really didn’t know what to say so I was kind of quiet. He asked me why was it that I only attended church on Wednesday nights. I said because I’m looking for a new church home and I want to finish out what I started with the youth group and the garden that we were raising. He didn’t asked me if my ex-boyfriend attended that church as well? And I think the truthful person that I am said yes! He then asked me to collect the weedeater and let’s head to new Boston Road to the lawn more repair place. The other question that he asked me was did he look better on the photos of him or in person. I was so excited just staring at him, his Indian profile that I didn’t say anything and he went on to something else, but I wish I had said you looked better in person because he did. He had already told me that he was a sensitive guy, however I did not know exactly what that meant when he said it over the phone. So I got in my truck he got in his truck I went to the right and he went to the left and I never saw him again. I was not aware that he was going to Grace off so fast then mile truck could not even keep up because first of all I had to turn around and go the direction that he was going, but I did try. I thought maybe the phone call that he received was an emergency so I didn’t worry about it too much. I sent him an instant messenger text, just around 3:30 PM on Wednesday. He sent me a sticker little heart-shaped balloons with the little squirrel waving at me. However I didn’t see it at that time. I was more interested in trying to find out what was the reason that
Drew B from Peoria, Illinois on June 05, 2022:
I’ve read lots about the Scorpio man but never anything this spot on and real. It’s like you let out all of our secrets man!
I’ve found Cancer women are great matches for us. They really won’t I take up with our crap the claw you when you s step out of line.
I learned a lot about myself. Thanks!
John Hollywood (author) from Hollywood, CA on June 05, 2022:
Thanks for sharing and I hope this material was useful!
Brigitta Johansen on June 05, 2022:
lm connected with a scorpio man and understand every single word you wrote and hope my psent understanding will improve my relation that is more than weak sometimes
John Hollywood (author) from Hollywood, CA on May 31, 2022:
So glad you found helpful!
John Hollywood (author) from Hollywood, CA on May 31, 2022:
Glad you liked it!
Debby Fox on May 24, 2022:
John Hollywood (author) from Hollywood, CA on May 22, 2022:
I am glad you liked the article. I tried to be totally honest about all that appears.
Rainy on May 22, 2022:
Hi Mr.Hollywood 🙂 1st I want to say thanks for sharing your insight! I’m glad I came across this hub.
Sag Female here I & Scorp met 10 years chúng tôi seems as though our plans on reuniting have been postponed due to our various personal life circumstances…similar hardships just different chúng tôi seems like a play of hit & miss or almost there…
But through this decade we’ve managed to maintain our connection.
I want to believe that the reason for our separation may be that we were being tested & ppared by the universe, so that we can be ready for union when the time comes.
I do feel I have learned a lil easier when it comes to these lessons & im waiting for him to catch up. Not wiser but we still both hold a fair amount of stubbornness. Without saying a word, he helps me gain a sense of perspective on my weaknesses & it makes me want to work on them so I can becom better.
There is a natural understanding between us & I will admit it is nothing like I’ve had before, As the archer I do love my freedom
but I love the idea of surrendering that & exchanging it for him more.
Yesterday we spoke of numbers &
how we were both seeing a patterns occur within out lives lately,
Me: 11:11 & 12:34.
Him: 5,3 & 8/ 5+3=8…
I guess I can apply the 8 to our birthdays being 8 days apart…
but I am not sure just yet how or if that has any substantial matter.
I was online & I have read so much negativity revolving around the partnership of scorp&sagi & I’ve had 1 past partner being a scorpio that ended bittersweet…(but they can’t all be the same).
then this thought creeped up in my mind that..
what if time has kept us apart not because of my own optimistic reasoning but because we were apart for a good reason & are not actually meant to be
lyz1025 on May 06, 2022:
Wow,this is so chúng tôi i know better! my why’s were greatly answered and this really made chúng tôi a lot of help,and i cant be more thankful to the writer JH.
Vibez on April 24, 2022:
Beautifully said! Love love love ✌
Kimberly on April 18, 2022:
This is totally “on point” !
Nena on April 02, 2022:
Dating scorpio 3 yrs now he just told me I LOVE YOU let’s see where this goes. Like huh? Not consider to be his girlfriend, like huh?? And of course he keeps his disnants, is been a month haven’t seen him, but we text few times a wk. Should I ignored him? I miss him, I feel he doesn’t love me. Help.
Sindy on March 16, 2022:
I’m Pisces ad my Scorpio does not believe in astrology (strange right) but he actually enjoyed this article.
Jessica on March 04, 2022:
Aside from great sex, don’t know why anyone would date one long term! They take everything too seriously, can’t take any criticism or teasing (but love to give you criticism and little suggestions you never asked for), play manipulative games, try to change your personality then criticize you for “not being yourself”, have different shades of extreme moods, super type A personality, will never tell you what’s wrong but will expect you to “just know” what’s going on with them (but if something’s wrong with you, they’re too selfish to even notice even though they are supposed to be sensitive and empathetic), highly insecure, kind of feminine, think it’s so much fun for you to “p them out”, so they will do stupid and immature things to “keep you guessing”. Don’t even try to hold their hand in public without asking for permission, overly concerned about what’s “appropriate behavior” in public. You better make a good impssion to make him look good. Haha, am I missing something? So many not fun things about Scorpio dudes. He probably has a substance abuse problem and anger issues too. Anyway, writing a book here. Gotta go have fun time and awesome sex with my Sagittarius man. Good luck though! -Leo woman
silverfirefly on March 03, 2022:
I’m a Sagittarius woman, and I know a Scorpio man. I recognise much of what is listed in the article in this guy I know (who is lovely by the way).
I have one point to make: no-one can assert something into someone else’s life without the other person’s co-operation. So no, you can’t make my life a misery against my will. Even if I was living with a Scorpio male who has a grudge, there are ways to overcome or deal with it. I can move out, I can use the occult to influence him in order to minimise his sting (I have Jupiter in Scorpio), and a whole host of other tactics I have which all work. Also, anyone attempting to manipulate me will find that I have an uncanny ability to nip that in the bud FAST. 😉
Karan on February 27, 2022:
I am a Leo woman dating a Scorpio man and now I finally understand so much by reading your article. Thank you so much for writing this because it explains so much to me why he acts the way he does. You have helped me to understand and to be a lot more patient and not take things so personal. I kept wondering if I did something wrong knowing inside that I didn’t. Patience is not a good point for me but I now understand that I have to work harder at being more patient and things will be so much better.
Vallin from Atlanta, GA on February 25, 2022:
OOOH…add Neptune-ASC-Venus [in SCO–YES };)!]-Mercury la Moriganna for my Dyon-Orphic Orgasmo-Death Mix and stir ’til trouble ensues.
(Moon in TAU, too: Om-nom-nom!)
[email protected] on February 23, 2022:
Encina Scorpio for about 6 months now and I’ve run a lot if they don’t like to talk about their feelings. But the last few times I have been with him he has told me that I am awesome and that I drive him absolutely crazy in that I bring out the good & the bad in him and he says he loves everything about me. If he always has me stare deep into his eyes and he smiles really big as he’s doing it. And every once in a while he’ll say something. An hour we reply with what kind of a question is that? And your reply they’re supposed to get when is that other girls do but it doesn’t make me mad it just think it’s an odd question and that kind of throws me off too cuz it’s like does he want me to get angry? And as far as sex goes he says I wear him out. And that I am beautiful. I like to know does he truly mean all this cuz I am crazy about him too before I start thinking with my heart instead of my head. Could someone please help
Pisces girl on February 18, 2022:
I find this article great, BUT there’s definitely mystery in it. You didn’t exposed it all (: and at some parts I didn’t understood how things connected to each other.
We been together for 3 years and STILL getting to know each other.
Both water signs, both have trust issues and both suspicious both reserved. and I always get the feeling from him that he wait for me to make the first moves and then he will follow. In his own time of course.
It’s hard for me to reach out to him because I don’t want to get hurt or be disappointed.
But I guess as him fixed and controlling and I flexible- I must make thr first moves, he challenging me to get out of my shell for him, something I never done for anyone else (not even my pvious Scorpios. He wins them by far..) He won’t give up. He wants me to reach first.
Our sexual life is basically on hold because no one wants to make the first move.
Our potential together is SUBLIME. We barely speak about what really in our hearts because we both so damn reserved and mysterious (like- I never want other to know what I feel) but we have such s strong telepathic connection.
Scorpio and Pisces – highly recommended!
J on February 15, 2022:
Elisabeth Marg on February 04, 2022:
Can you please help me? I’m genuinely confused about a Scorpio male. So we’ve been seeing each other for about 3 months now, and it has been amazing. He lives further away so we talked a lot through phone calls and texts, almost every day. He even said he wanted to marry me, and that he loved me and all. Pretty intense, huh? But, now, I haven’t heard from him in almost two weeks! It went from hot to cold. What should I do? leave him alone? Give him space? wait for him to come back? Please help! I’m not experienced with Scorpio males.
This article has made things definitely clearer already.
Elisabeth (A virgo girl)
Shyanne on January 26, 2022:
I am an Aries & trying to get w a Scorpio 😉
Orangeslice on January 25, 2022:
My son is a Scorpio & had his heart broken & hasn’t moved on. He can’t trust again hasn’t even dated in a few years. It was the love of his life & they were engaged to be married. He hasnt had a serious GF in over 5 yrs. Starts to talk to a girl but it doesnt seem to work out. Think maybe the trust thing is pushing them away. how can he switch to using his good traits again?
Jam on January 12, 2022:
Is it true that scorpio man likely to sacrifice his love over his needs (Money & material things?)
Jao on January 12, 2022:
is it true that scorpio man will choose money over his love? Should I say he follows his mind before his heart?
Capricorn Woman on January 11, 2022:
Are there some Scorpio men that cheat on their spouses/girlfriends?
maca on January 06, 2022:
I am dating a Scorpio guy and am (almost 😉 ) nuts about him. Thanks for sharing. Very valuable information! Really helps! Xx
Tina on December 31, 2022:
This has been a dead on ringer for what I’ve been going through the last two years. Allot of things have come into play and certain things which you’ve touched on have explained reactions clearly, since I hadn’t gotten any from him.
I thank you for being so brutally honest. We may actually have a fighting chance. I a loving way.
Rach on December 29, 2022:
Scorpions are hard to get that’s for sure. But I find that everything is driven by fear. Fear of losing you chúng tôi of getting chúng tôi of being chúng tôi of being chúng tôi of being chúng tôi of chúng tôi of commitment…. You get the picture. They are the most contrary people you will meet with a dash of double standards. But I love em, they are such a mixed bag you never know what you will get. I admire their self control and will power it is amazing. And that cool detachment makes me wild, brings out the hunter py thing in any female (roar hehe).
Rach on December 28, 2022:
Aaauugghh! Scorpio men are so deliciously infuriating. (Me pisces by the way). This scorp guy that I adore and crave drives me crazy and he IS crazy. But as a pisces I know myself and if he wasn’t so complicated I would have got bored and be like NEXT….. Because once I work a guy out completely it’s chúng tôi more depths to reach. Scorpio the endless mystery ..yum.
hana on December 12, 2022:
what do you say about the fact that I attracted (& I was attracted )4 men all born on 9th November?
Lina on November 24, 2022:
Hello! I’ve been craving for a scorpio since the first day he has talked to me. I am also a scorpio and his behaviour seems really weird to me. He tells me one day ” you look so ptty today” and we talk like 5 minutes, then we do not talk like a week or 2. Then, we go out with our friends ( we are collegues) and he always sits next to me. Like always. I don’t know how he always gets near me, but he manages somehow. The thing is, we barely talk when we go out. The only things that he tells me are like ” you look so good” and we are both aware that we like each other. I am trying my best to manage somehow to talk to him, and I usually don’t do that. We have like tons in common but we just don’t talk. I have never craved someone so much and I would like to know if I should let things be, or Should I just talk to him. But, as I am a scorpio too, I find myself in him somehow and I somehow understand the mechanism but I would love to know if he talks to me because he is interested or just like that. Because his behaviour is described by you perfectly.: once he seems interesred then total silence. By the way, your article is the best I have ever read!! Thanks !
Linda on November 14, 2022:
This fits my Scorpio perfectly even in our 60s. Been dating 14 months and all of this fits. Helps me to deal with him better.
Diane on October 27, 2022:
My scorpio ex had a hard time being emotionally vulnerable. Even being together for a while he still did not want to open up.
Desiree on October 17, 2022:
This is right on the dot , I’m with a Scorpio man and I’m so in love with him. I found all of this to be true about him,but seeing the signs of when he is in love with you totally match him and makes it all the better. I’m a Leo woman and odds are usually said that we aren’t compatible ,but we are so intensely in love. I will say there’s never a boring point in our relationship whether we are in a heated argument or heated elsewhere 😉 it’s literally the best thing ever. I find it fairly easy once you understand and have a open mind about them. I love my Scorpio to death. (strong emphasis on death) lol xoxox
Jacky on October 15, 2022:
Hey, so i recently met a Scorpio male at bww on a Sunday, and we hit it off. Things seemed to be going great. We hung out that following week about every day. Even went dancing and then the next day we hung out 1 on 1. Last time I saw him was Tuesday its Saturday now.
Seems like he got distant out of nowhere. We’ve texted a little here and there. But idk what should I be thinking?
Prashant on October 06, 2022:
Hi I am a Scorpio male and what you have described totally matches.
A Gemini girl is in love with me.
I searched a lot through astrological site about compatibility and came to a conclusion that it will be a “bumpy ride on smooth road” . That’s why I am not taking any forward move in this relationship. Will you please suggest me something?
Van on September 11, 2022:
Learned a lot about this sign…thanks dont know how to retrack criticisms I have answered him to with regards self chúng tôi asked me chúng tôi is distant now as a result dont know what to do n now focusing on a friend for lust or love I dont know n am confused why pick a friend to begin with to spite me or what
MSMello on August 21, 2022:
Actually i’m Aquarian myself, and i’m truly liking a scorpio… But i do sometimes drive him away cause i’m too curious and often ask about his personal life and past, so… LOL.
charm88 on August 02, 2022:
What do you mean “at times have a wandering eye”? My boyfriend is a Scorpio and I sometimes speculate that he cheats.I dont want to get into details, but im ptty sure about it actually. How can he proclaim that he wants to spend the rest of his life with me and then go out and cheat. What could be behind that?
KVB on June 08, 2022:
I loved your write up. It gives an insight to the most misunderstood part of a Scorpio. Thanks for taking the time.
lovelace on January 20, 2022:
Does a scorpion and a cancerian match well enough for each other..
JMS on October 27, 2022:
I was married to a Scorpio for 40 years, and he is gone now. We really had a wonderful soulmate relationship. He was the most wonderful loving husband, father and lover. I will always love this man and the way he showed love was so intense he has been unforgettable in my mind. I’ll never forget my Raymond, but I have grieved for 10 years and now I am ready to move on. I have realized there is still room for another soulmate relationship in my life and still keep memories of my late husband and keep both in the right perspective. Your study of a Scorpio man, was to a T of my husband. He cherished me to his dying breath and I was so glad we found each other early in life. We were 15 years old and 2 weeks after we met he told me he had a pmonition that we were going to get married someday………. not really something I could handle at such a young age, but we married 3 years later…….. he passed at 55 from many complications from the Vietnam war. We married 16 days before he went to Vietnam which he DID come home and that first year probably gave us the strength in our marriage to tackle anything life passed our way. We had our fights, disagreements, etc, but he made a pact to never attach each other with those horrible degrading words that really linger and hurt, that sometimes get in the way of resolutions. By the way, he was a Scorpio and I am a Leo………. p the odds, I guess we were the exception to the rule.
John Hollywood (author) from Hollywood, CA on June 25, 2022:
Thanks for the response. Yes – it’s focused on males because that’s a specific zodiac bit of information people search for. It’s not overly focused on males but instead exclusively focused on males. I do respect where you are coming from though.
Kagi MariJade on June 24, 2022:
These traits aren’t limited to male Scorpios – I’m a non-binary, AFAB meaning I am neither/both genders, and share most or all of these characteristics as well. To some extent, a Scorpio is just a Scorpio. But well done for laying it out with such clarity, even with the overly heteronormative focus.
mikeydcarroll67 on June 18, 2022:
I would say that some of these are fairly accurate. Thanks for writing this!
Jess on June 17, 2022:
This is so spot on!!! My love is a scorpio male and he has totally captivated me and captured my heart! There is no one else for me 🙂
-Aries woman who adores her Scorpio man
venusianmoon on March 02, 2022:
Nice article you have written. Many of the characteristics listed here rings very true.
I am in love with mine for over 2 years. A wild ride is an understatement of what we went through. A Scorpio man is both heaven & hell
The one that I am seeing has 3 personal planets in Scorpio – Sun, Venus, and Merc. Possibly Moon, but am not sure on his birth time. Although he seems cool and collected most of the time, I see the sweetest and softest heart behind those eyes. A glance in his eyes makes him fidget. I can truly see and feel his emotions in his eyes. I think it is cute to say the least – makes me want to comfort him more.
I will summarize my story as short as possible ..
We dated for 6 mos – he pursued me passionately and I became his quickly. Things moved forward faster than I expected, 4 months into dating, he offered me his house keys so I can come to his place whenever I want to. Within those times we have dated, he has not expss a single word as to how he felt about me or where I stood with him. It bothered me so much that he does not communicate as much as I would like him to. Even though, I fell in love with him… I over looked all of the flaws and began to see the soft side of him. The little things he does for me, the way he protect his inner circle… the unspoken connection we had was amazing. And of course, the physical intimacy between the two of us is electric and intense. Both of us runs on high levels of passion. Then one day, things fell between us. He left me hanging to dry alone – without an explanation. He said to me, I want to let you know that I thought about this for a very long time. You will not be happy with me. The heart break that followed after that … was unbearable. I had no clue that my feelings ran so deep for him. Shortly after, he started to date another chick, but he continued to seek me. He will message me to check up on me. Asking me if I am okay. We continued to see each other and I can not stop the intimacy as I was in love with this man. Foolish of me because I have only created a bigger wound to heal in myself. I stopped seeing him for 2 months to focus on ME and heal spiritually though things are unresolved between us.
He became single last Fall and we reconnected again. He opened up for the first time and said he cares very much for me and not having me in his life is NOT a choice. Things felt refreshing, like we are getting to know each other all over again. We will have dinners and work out together… it felt sweet and I can feel that he has feelings for me in the last 3 years. He is always affectionate with me. When I run, he chases hard. Things are going nicely right now.. but at times I just don’t know where this is headed. I have been very patient for the last 2+ years. He has his moods and I am very understanding and patient with him because I love him. BUT… I just don’t know what he wants and this is why I am with holding sex from him for half a year now until I see real effort.
Can you tell me how I should handle this situation? Does this man want more with me?
John Hollywood (author) from Hollywood, CA on February 19, 2022:
Glad you shared! Scorpio relationships can be tuff!!!
universe mind on February 17, 2022:
What you have said is so true. I’m 42 and I didn’t know about these things because I was in a confining environment. I’m going to make up for that. I’m in a bad relationship and I found out that my partner is a scorpio moon and I also am a scorpio moon. I’m stuck in it for now. I just wanted to expss myself
John Hollywood (author) from Hollywood, CA on January 12, 2022:
manatita44 from london on January 11, 2022:
Quite a different kind of article, and very informative. Probably good for the ladies, I guess. Well written and researched with some experience there as well.
Confused777 on September 15, 2014:
John Hollywood (author) from Hollywood, CA on September 14, 2014:
Have you tried to contact him? Was there an argument that happened? How long were you dating?
badets on September 14, 2014:
My bf is scorpio his last message to me is i love you so much hon and thanks for everything and after that its been 3 days that his not calling or texting… emails zero….. does he still love me? Or do i need to wait for him?… i love him and worried but he does not respond to my call text and emails… i’m very confused right now…
John Lannoye from Chicago on September 13, 2014:
Scorpio males are interesting for sure and the females even more interesting. Absolutely true that Scorpios are easy to spot – always wearing sunglasses lol
John Hollywood (author) from Hollywood, CA on September 13, 2014:
Hi, Christiansweta – yep, your man sounds like a Scorpio for sure! He’ll love you forever and take care of you. The possessive and manipulative stuff is the ugly part of our sign. Lol. Thanks for stopping by!
Sweeta on September 13, 2014:
John Hollywood (author) from Hollywood, CA on September 13, 2014:
Confused777 on September 13, 2014:
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